Dave teaches classes, runs workshops, and even holds interactive sessions with demo tops or bottoms. He is normally available for group classes, but can also conduct smaller gathering or one-on-one classes.

“Dave is setting new standards for a profession he is transforming. What I would call him is a sexual healer, an erotic artist, a love shaman. I do not use these words casually.

As a scholar with a PhD in contemporary sacred sexualities, I have studied hundreds of people who combine spirit and sex in their work and play. Dave is simply, utterly, one of the best, one of the most honest and compassionate and alive people I have ever had the honor of connecting with.”

Loraine Hutchins, Ph.D.
Sex Coach, Sex Educator, Sexological Bodyworker

– Class format: A talk, with Q&A at end

– Class objective: Gain insight into sexual orientation – good for gay men, lesbians, straight men, straight women… and of course, bisexual or bi-curious people.

Sexual orientation is more than a continuum, as Kinsey wrote. It is fluid, and actually varies over time. It is also multi-layered, comprising different elements including fantasy, visuals, and actual behavior. Even in these “enlightened” times, there remain conflicting and contradictory attitudes concerning bisexuality, as a form of self-identification and in sexual practice. These attitudes affect men, women and transgender people. And they affect all sorts of relationships, from monogamous to open to polyamorous. This candid and frank session addresses prevalent notions and offers strategies to bring bisexuality into play, within scenes, within relationships, and within personal lives.


– Class format: Demo, with Dave and volunteers

– Class objective: Learn how to approach a man’s hole, effectively stimulate the prostate, and the myriad of things that can go up a guy’s butt.

The focus is on the ass! Specifically, playing with men’s asses. Get ready – this is a demo class – so if you are male, have an asshole, and want to be a demo bottom, please come to this workshop “cleaned out.” Unsure how to clean out? No problem, it’s always nice to have one guy who’s willing to demo receiving an enema, as well.

We will explore toys and various body parts up the ass (including a tongue, dick, and balls.) If we’re lucky enough to have a fisting demo bottom join in, we’ll get to that, too…

“The ‘Dealing with Male Assholes’ class was so hot, I had to leave in the middle of it to get fucked in the next room!

Participant at Dark Odyssey

– Class format: A demo workshop, with Dave and volunteers

– Class objective: Learn, finally, how to be a great top. Or bottom.

You owe it to him or her, to be the best anal top or bottom that you can be. Hell, who are we fooling? You owe it to yourself. Come to class with or without a partner, and get tips on fucking. If you come alone, we’ll pair you up with someone for practice fucks. Gender preferences will be respected. Preparation is essential – anyone who bottoms will need to be cleaned out. For anyone who’s “open” to it, we’ll switch up your workshop partners at different points, so you can practice with different people.

– Class format: Demo workshop, with Dave and volunteers

– Class objective: Learn shaving techniques for removing body hair.

Bring your most hirsute version of yourself.  Dave will talk you through this, walk you through this, and shave you through this. It’ll be good for you. Clean up real nice – and start living life with less. If you are shave-curious, you’re also welcome to this workshop, and guaranteed to leave with the same amount of hair you came in with. Unless, of course, you really need a shave…

– Class format: Demo, with Dave and volunteers

– Class objective: Learn about watersports, including history, safety, and tips.

One of the more taboo sexual acts, watersports / golden showers / piss play seems dirty, but those that love it confirm: it’s hot! Even if you don’t yet agree, you have to admit, at least it’s warm…

If you like that warm feeling… of piss flowing over your body… in your hair… maybe even gulping it down “from the tap” …then you should definitely come to this class.

Learn about the history of piss play, the safety of piss play, and the fun of piss play. Then, watch (or join in) as we have a demo of piss play! Remember: it’s better to be pissed on, than pissed off!

“Dave… your watersports class was a lot of fun. thanks for a hot workshop!”

Mina, Winter Fire attendee

– Class format: Demo, with Dave and volunteers

– Class objective: Explore the realm of cock and ball torture (CBT), from anatomy and safety to tips and techniques.

For the uninitiated, the first question that naturally comes to mind is “why?” To lovers of CBT, though, engaging in this is one of the best ways of play. “Torture” is a bit of a misnomer, because in fact the direct intense stimulation of male genitals is, when done right, a very pleasurable experience. There is great variety in CBT, and it can be done sensually, or with a masochistic bent. Learn how to play with a man’s junk, and understand why guys like this in the first place. After we explore safety aspects, Dave will give tips for getting the most out of a session. In this hands-on demo, you’ll learn about manual manipulation, bondage options, and various toys that literally can drive a guy to ecstacy.


– Class format: A talk, with Q&A at end

– Class objective: Explore the concept of sharing your sex life, in words alone, with countless others – all over the globe.

Why do people blog about their sex lives? How do people decide on what to blog, and what is too personal? And what about anonymity?

In this class, we will address these questions and other aspects of blogging, including the relationship bloggers have with their audience, and how they see their readers – as consumers, friends, lovers… or even as liabilities? For what seems to be a light fun subject could have very serious consequences, if the author is “outed.”

– Class format: A reading, with Q&A at end

– Class objective: Learn about sexual orientations, practices, and interests that may differ from your own, to gain greater understanding of other people’s sex lives.

Kick back, relax, and enjoy! Hear tales from raconteur Dave. Sit a spell as he fills you in on his adventures in the skin trade—not to mention his off-duty relaxations at orgies, sex clubs and hot tubs. A fun, eye-opening, sometimes shocking performance that’s sure to entertain, while embracing the larger issues of sexual tolerance and acceptance.

“Keep Dave’s presentation in your curriculum. His was the single-most informative, mindblowing day of the semester.”

University student, Montgomery College


A bisexual switch. A consensual non-monogamist. A tireless lover. A pretty adventurous man.

Dave works full time as an escort for all genders, including male, female, trans and non-binary.

He teaches about sex in a variety of places, from sex conferences to accredited university classes.

An activist for sex worker rights, bisexual rights, and the sex-positive movement, Dave currently lives in Bali. His weekly blog posts on his sex life, spanning three years, was chosen as a “Best Sex Blog” Finalist for the Erotic Awards in England. Dave travels worldwide for the services he provides. His escort website can be found here.


Via email: Dave703.927.2759 (at) gmail (dot) com